Table of Contents
Acknowledgements VII
Introduction: Monsters & Myths of the Heart 8
Section 1 Is There Such A Thing As A Soul Mate? 5
Biology or Spirituality? 6
Romantic Love and why it can suck ... 10
Soul Mates: Fact or Fiction 11
There is not just one Soul Mate 13
Why we get into trouble...the Misidentification of Soul Mates 27
Section 2 Obstacle Busting-Getting Rid of the Barriers in Your Way 40
What's in the Way...US! 40
Flushing out the Soul Monsters 41
Conscious versus unconscious beliefs 42
Patterns 46
How can we determine if we have had a past life? 56
Why are we so uptight about dating? 59
Setting Yourself Free-What happens when we can't move on? 61
Why timing is so important 65
The Soul Detox-Cutting the Cords 66
Opening, Purpose and Intention 69
Section 3 Attracting Your Ideal Partner 76
How the laws of attraction work with love 76
Deal breakers 86
Negotiables (+case studies) 88
Ritual for Ideal Partner 89
Your Action Plan for Guaranteed Results 95
Section 4 Other Tools to Enhance the Process 98
Candles 98
Crystals 100
Herbs and Plants 102
Essential Oils 107
Vision Boards 110
God and Goddess Energy 111
Conclusion: Some Final no Excuses ... 116
Appendix: Resources 118